Be a good dad

Be a good dad...

I would like to walk you through something that i have never become. It's about the day you became a father. when was that? Obviously it was the day your kid was born. But if you think deeper, you could see that, he was there in his mothers womb. So i want to say it as the moment your kid was a sperm

Funny isn't it. I want to share some of my opinion as well as one of my professors opinion.I don't   want to disclose his name, but he used to come our Jesus Youth prayer meeting and giving lectures about marriage. I will take some of his point ,add with mine. It is your choice whether   you can buy it or not.

Porn-the enemy

Well! Here the enemy is porn. We all know  it is a common enemy of bachelors as well as married people but let's focus on the marriage and the family formation. Have you ever thought of how bad it was if your kid was born from the act aroused by a porn movie or while you were making love to your partner , the porn was also playing in your laptop. 

Can you predict the future of your kid.how bad he can be. It can be depended on probability ,but why do you want to toss your kids future when you have full control of it.it is more than a shame. it is the fact that you spoiled your kids future. He was born not from love but something else.Teaching says porn should never come in marriage.

Preparation

Many of us are having a habit of starting new thing with prayers. Children are your future and your hope. Why cant you make them  with preparation. I read or heard that the greeks prepare for the union for more than 3 months. Some  bhramins do the intercourse at 3 am. Well, I am not saying you should put your alarm at 3AM and make love to your partner. It should be a deciosn that both of you want a kid and from that moment the prepararion starts. it should be based on love but not lust. Studies shows that children were born with preparation have shown moral values in their  life.

We human , many of us start new thing with prayers. So why can't you purify yourself,go to church/temple ,stay away from sex for a while as an abstinence and prepare the C day. Creation day. remember it is the day you become the creator. Why can't you prepare  bit more. It is a myth, but it says , you can even ask what you want ,you can determine the gender if you want. Someone will argue me that you can't say when it will happen. Well, I would say that is the problem with being ordinary.

It is all about , belief , prayers and hope. Have you ever imagined your father telling you that you were an accident. So your kid want the same. Kid should be telling you " plan me dady, be a good dad  from the first day"  

Again, this passage is not for atheist .This is for who believes something exists that scientifically not proven.